Celebrating a First Birthday the Traditional Japanese Way- with ISSHO MOCHI (一升餅), 2 kilograms of pounded rice, strapped to the child`s back!
Since the end of World War II, it has become more and more common for the Japanese to celebrate their birthdays ON THEIR BIRTHDAY! This might sound strange. I mean, what other way IS there to celebrate a birthday? Well, in the case of the Japanese, instead of celebrating as they do now, with birthday cakes, presents, and the singing of HAPPY BIRTHDAY ( sung with a Japanese accent as HAPPY BAASDAY to you!) on or around the day and month on which the celebrant was actually born, traditionally the Japanese would celebrate their birthdays, or more correctly- GROWING ONE YEAR OLDER, at New Year`s with rice cakes ( mochi), and other special new Year`s dishes ( and later in their history with soba noodles).
This means that on New Year`s Eve ( Omisoka), ALL Japanese used to consider themselves as having all AGED ONE YEAR . In other words, New Year`s ( O-Shogatsu) was everyones birthday! This made for some strange situations, especially considering that babies were traditionally considered to already be ONE YEAR OLD AT THE TIME OF BIRTH.Thus, a baby born two weeks ( or even two days) before the New Year, would be considered to be TWO YEARS OLD at New Years, although they he/she was in fact only WEEKS old.

The mochi (rice cakes) are wrapped in a FUROSHI (wrapping cloth) which is tied over the child`s shoulder
This way of determining a person`s age ( starting with one year of age at the time of birth) is called KAZOE-DOSHI, and is still used sometimes today when talking about when to hold certain traditional ceremonies ( such as purification for unlucky ages- YAKU BARAI ,etc.).
And though nowadays it is on a persons birthday that one is recognized as having aged by one year ( this is now the legally accepted system, as well), we can still witness the existence of the old concept of everyone celebrating their age at one time each January on Coming -of-Age Day, when all twenty year olds celebrate their attainment of adulthood together on the same day.

As you can imagine, one-year olds are not very comfortable with 2 kilograms of pounded rice strapped to their backs!
Traditionally,there WAS one time a persons actual birthday was celebrated ( with no connection to New Year`s)- the first anniversary of birth- what we would now called the first birthday ( though in the old days in Japan the child would have been considered at least two on his first birthday!). The reason for this is probably because in the days of high infant mortality, a child surviving his/her first year was something truly special to celebrate.
This event has been ( and still is) called HATSU TANJO (初誕生), in Japanese, and there is a very unique way of celebrating the occassion ( though there are several variations in the customs depending on region and family). In its most common form it is called ISSHO MOCHI (一升餅). One SHO (升, about two kilograms) of sticky rice is pounded into MOCHI- large round cakes ( now these are usually ordered from a shop), and then , most typically, these are wrapped up in a FUROSHIKI ( a medium sized cloth) and then TIED ONTO THE ONE YEAR OLD CHILDS BACK!
This is quite a heavy load for a one-year old to bear, and they are sure to cry, or at least KVETCH. It is usually up to the parents to help the child stand for a few seconds, and maybe prop him/her up againt the wall ( being VERY careful that the furoshiki is not putting pressure on the child`s neck!).
After this is done, the child`s future occupation is divined by laying out a few objects and waiting to see which one he/she picks out. Traditionally, these have been an abacus, a writing brush, and a scythe, etc. for a boy, and scissors, a book and a pin case, etc. for girls. These days, however, families can have fun by putting out all kinds of things representing different fields and occupations.

Its customary to have the child to stand for just a few seconds ( with support of course!) with the load on his/her back
In the old days this was usually a major event with a wide range of relatives, neighbors and good friends being invited for the ceremony and a festive meal. Now it is more usual to have just the nuclear family, or perhaps the grandparents, and aunts and uncles on hand for this unique and amusing event.

It is also customary for the childs future profession to be divined by placing various objects in front of him/her and seeing item is selected
As is so often the case when taking a closer look at specific aspects of Japanese culture, the Issho mochi custom also proves to be suprisingly fascinating with multiple layers of symbolic meaning as well as anthropological significance.
First lets look at the name of the ceremony- Issho mochi. While written with the characters 一升、this means two kilos of rice, but written with different characters- 一生, the same sounds mean- ONES WHOLE LIFE. Thus, by this connection of similar sounding words ( goro awase), the ceremony takes on the significance as a prayer for good health and prosperity for the childs ENTIRE LIFE.
The discomfort brought on by the sudden yoking of the child to the rice cakes can also be said to signify an introduction to the future challenges which lay in store for the child as it grows older. Its like saying- this is what life is like, kiddo!
When the child falls down on his/her backside after having stood for a second or two, it can be said that the child`s impurities are washed away. This is obvious once again from a play on words- because in the Japanese ridding oneself of impurities is called YAKU OTOSHI (厄落とし) and OTOSHI also means to drop or fall. Thus when falling down with the purifying rice cakes, one is spiritually cleansed.
The heavy weight making it difficult for the child to stand has another signicance as well. It is an expression of the parents desire that the child not grow up to soon.
Besides the similar feelings shared by many parents around the world regarding fears that their children will grow up TOO FAST, in traditional Japanese thought this had a unique twist.
It was commonly in Japan for children who could walk before their first birthday to be called demon children ( ONI KO, 鬼子). Such kids were feared and avoided. Thus, if a child started to walk before his/her first birthday, parents would not them down! On the other hand, it was believed that children should start walking right after their first birthday. The ISSHO MOCHI ceremony would be the last time that children would be discouraged from walking on their own! ( for much more on this there is a book by Kondo Naoya (近藤直也) called ONIKO TO TANJO MOCHI (鬼子と誕生餅)- Demon-kids and first birthday rice cakes, published by the Iwata Shoin Press.)

The Issho Mochi ceremony provides families with many photo ops and many fond memories- this photo was provided by Asako Seo of Tsukuba
No matter what the origins and symbolisms of this ceremony, the most important thing is that it is lots of fun for everyone, and a great chance to take pictures, celebrate the one year olds growth, and pray for his/ her future health and happiness.
Cooking up the mochi rice cakes later can be fun ( and tasty), as well.
I have also written about the RITUAL FEEDING CEREMONY called OKUIZOME (お食い初め), which is held one hundred days after a child`s birth:
And here is a song for those who understand ( or those who would like to understand) the joy of having kids ( written by Hase G and myself)- and recorded by the Tengooz:
http://www.jamendo.com/en/track/116593
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Celebrating HINA MATSURI ( The Doll Festival)- some Tsukubans will be taking their time in putting away their HINA DOLLS!
It is March 3rd and across Japan families with daughters are celebrating the Hina Matsuri (雛祭り) Doll Festival with chirashizushi (vinegared sushi-rice topped with shrimp, salmon roe and colorful strips of egg, carrot and seaweed) clam soup (hamaguri no ushio, はまぐりの潮汁), brightly dyed traditional rice-based sweets called hishimochi (ひし餅) and a milky colored sweet rice wine called shirozake ( 白酒). Though these 3 dishes and the sake have become the standardized Girls Day FARE throughout the country, there is surprising variation to be found among the Japanese in terms of how they display and subsequently put away the star attractions of the season — the Hina Dolls themselves.
Department stores and other shops start displaying and promoting the fantastically ornate and very expensive Hina Doll sets right after the New Year Holiday. This type of set became popular in the Edo Period (1600-1867) and has been customarily presented upon the birth of a first daughter by the maternal grandparents. A full set requires a seven-tiered staircase-like deck on which to display the prince and princess, ministers, attendants, musicians and the procession of dowry goods. Of course such a set can cost an arm and a leg and even more importantly takes up a lot of precious space. Thus it has been quite common for families to have and display just the prince and princess dolls.
The Hina Dolls are taken out and displayed in February, though there seems to be no consensus on exactly when it is best to do so. Some people do it right after Setsubun in the first week of the month, or on any other auspicious date after that. It depends on the family.
In this way, Japanese families can enjoy these sublimely beautiful seasonal decorations for a few weeks or days before March third, the day of the festival itself, on which it is commonly believed that the dolls must be put away. According to tradition, if the dolls are not packed in their boxes on the 3rd, the daughters of the house will have trouble getting married.
I have found, however, that many of the old Ibaraki families do not put their dolls away until May! They explain this by saying that they like to have the dolls out right up until it’s time for the Boys Day decorations. They usually claim that it is so troublesome to set up the Hina Dolls that they would like to display them for as long as possible.
It goes without saying that these families live in large homes in which the sets don’t get in the way of anybody. As so many Japanese now live in small apartments, I have found an endless variety of smaller rabbit-hutch friendly Hina Dolls or figures. These can be made of origami or be simple cut-outs. I have even seen families display postcards with pictures of dolls.
In fact, these smaller, paper dolls are more authentic than the ornate artworks created by the Edo Period craftsmen. This is because the Hina matsuri has its roots in Heian Period ( 794-1185) Japan when people would purify themselves by projecting all their sins into paper dolls which were then cast off into the sea or a river. In Wakayama Prefecture I have seen the dolls being set afloat on rivers as the tradition still lives on there.
I guess it can be said that the custom of packing away the dolls is what has replace the casting off. It became impracticle to discard the dolls each time when they evlved into elaborate and extremely EXPENSIVE sets. Many families still believe that the bad energies absorbed by the dolls would bring bad luck if not PUT AWAY..

A pair of Hina Dolls TURNED AROUND after March 3rd, by a family who had not yet had the time to put them away (March 2009)
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Children’s Club After School
If your child is going to elementary school next year, and there is no one to take care of him or her after school because both parents are working, a "Children's Club" could help you. Children can play and study with friends at a Jidoukan (児童館, children's hall) or elementary school. There is at least one teacher with the kids.
Children: elementary grades 1-3
Fee: 4000 yen/month
Club Time: Monday to Friday after school until 18:00 (National holidays: 8:30 to 18:00)
How to apply:
In case of Public Children's Club:
You can download the application form and fill it out, then you can submit it to the Jidoukan that which you wish to use. You have to submit the form from 17th December to 18th January next year.
If you would like Private Children's Club, you can ask how to apply by phone from 15:00 to 18:00.
City Web Site ( in Japanese):
http://cms.city.tsukuba.ibaraki.jp/050400/modules/wordpress/index.php?p=130
http://tsukubainfo.jp/Category/ChildrensHalls
http://tsukubainfo.jp/Main/ElementarySchools
Also, there is some information about Children's Clubs on this page.
http://tsukubainfo.jp/Main/Children
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Public Clubs (place, address, phone number, how many children) Map
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Kukizaki (茎崎)児童センター Oguki(小茎)1793 029(840)1321 30
Takezono Higashi (竹園東)児童館 Takezono(竹園)3-18-1 029(851)5802 30
Takezono Nishi (竹園西)児童館 Takezono(竹園)2-19-2 029(852)5039 40
Azuma Higashi (吾妻東)児童館 Azuma(吾妻)4-12 029(852)7858 30
Azuma Nishi (吾妻西)児童館 Azuma(吾妻)2-5-4 029(851)8141 50
Kokonoe (九重)児童館 Uenomuro(上ノ室)2094 029(857)4631 30
Sakae (栄)児童館 Yokomachi(横町)127-4 029(857)4206 30
Namiki (並木)児童館 Namiki(並木)4-2-3 029(851)5331 45
Ounan (桜南)児童館 Namiki(並木)4-7-3 029(858)0791 40
Teshirogi Minami (手代木南)児童館 Matsusiro(松代)4-15-1 029(852)0670 50
Matsushiro (松代)児童館 Matsusiro(松代)2-21-2 029(855)6110 40
Yatabe (谷田部)児童館 Yatabe(谷田部)4715 029(836)0611 40
Ninomiya (ニの宮)児童館 Ninomiya(ニの宮)4-9-2 029(855)6091 50
Yoshinuma (吉沼)児童館 Yosinuma(吉沼)814-1 029(865)2070 30
Kamigou (上郷)児童館 Kamigou(上郷)2270-1 029(847)5546 30
Higashi (東)児童館 Higasi(東)2-24-1 029(851)4801 40
Ozone (大曽根)児童館 Ozone(大曽根)447-3 029(864)0181 50
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Private Clubs (place, address, phone number) Map
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Shimana elementary school club
(島名小学校児童クラブ) Shimana(島名)537-1 080(6577)2163
Katsuragi elementary school club
(葛城小学校児童クラブ) Karima(苅間)689 090(1849)8067
Numasaki elementary school club
(沼崎小学校児童クラブ) Numasaki(沼崎)1408-2 029(847)2887
Mase elementary school club
(真瀬小学校児童クラブ) Mase(真瀬)2103 090(4610)7523
Imakashima elementary school club
(今鹿島児童クラブ) Imakasima(今鹿島)1761 029(847)4061
Onogawa elementary school club
(小野川小学校児童クラブ) Tateno(館野)443-1 029(836)6659
Kukizaki Daiiti Children's club
(茎崎第一児童クラブ) Takasaki(高崎)1873 029(872)2866
Kukizaki Daini Children's club
(茎崎第二児童クラブ) Simoiwasaki(下岩崎)2116 029(876)4100
Azora Children's club
(あおぞら児童クラブ) Simohiratsuka(下平塚)886-1 029(856)9696
Wakaba Day Care Children's club
(わかば保育園児童クラブ) Yatabe(谷田部)2061 029(838)0808
Minori Kindergarten Children's club
(みのり幼稚園児童クラブ) Takasaki(高崎)643-9 029(873)2540
Sakura Children's club
(さくら学童クラブ) Ueno(上野)1302 029(863)0053
Kaname elementary school club
(要小学校児童クラブ) Kaname(要)449-1 029(864)0571
Maeno elementary school club
(前野小学校児童クラブ) Maeno(前野)1367 080(3399)0471
Yatabe Minami elementary school club
(谷田部南小学校児童クラブ) Sakaida(境田)191-1 080(1363)3330
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Happy New Year!
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Children’s Home Needs Computers
A group in Kyoto is trying to raise money to buy computers and support an internet connection for a local orphanage. If you have some spare change, please consider donating it to this worthy cause.
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On Sunday, December 9th, 2007 at 1:30 p.m. the students of FriendsWorld/Global College will be participating in a Clean Up Walk through Shimogamo Jinja and along the Kamogawa to help raise awareness about the environment as well as to raise money for the Karyo-en Orphanage in Kyoto.
Karyo-en is located in the Shimogamo area and houses 20 girls and 18 boys between the ages of 3 and 17 who have been abandoned by their parents, in most cases because they have remarried or somehow changed their lifestyles in a way that did not leave room for their children. Some children are of mixed blood and were abandoned when their mothers remarried into a Japanese family.
Karyo-en is subsidized by the Japanese government and its most basic needs, such as for food, clothing and adult supervision are minimally provided, but as you can imagine, the children's lives are far from complete. In the past few years, some of the students at Friends World/Global College have brought food, clothing, books and toys to them as well as spent time playing with them and teaching them English.
This semester, one of our students who has been interning there, thought to raise money for computers and an internet connection for them. Although this will in no way come close to filling the gap left by the absence of family, on- line computers will give the children a way to connect to the rest of the world.
We are asking the children at Karyo-en to participate in this clean up walk with us to help empower them and demonstrate they can make a difference in their own lives as well as in the lives of others. We are hoping to raise money to purchase new and/or used computers that have a wireless internet connections, to buy equipment to set up the connection and to pay for it on a monthly basis. We are planning to continue this fundraising drive when necessary to buy additional computers or replace broken or out of date ones and to support the monthly internet connection charges.
We hope that you will help us by offering whatever donation you can. Any support, no matter how small, will be appreciated, so if your children would like to participate in their own name by contributing along with you- even just a few hundred yen- we will be grateful. This is not to say that we are not looking for larger donations- only that we hope that everyone can contribute an amount with which they are comfortable. We would also love to have you join with us in the cleanup, and ask your friends, family and colleagues to be sponsors too. The more money we can raise, the more computers we can buy and the longer we can support the internet connection.
Please contact me or anyone at Friends World/Global College and let us know if you can contribute to this drive in any way. We would like to buy the computers as soon as possible and start setting them up so please let us know how much you would like to pledge by Sunday, December 9. And please suggest to your family - especially your children and your friends - that they participate. Also, if you could help by forwarding this email to anyone who you think might be interested in helping, we would be much obliged.
Here are some of the different ways in which you can help:
Donate money (any amount would be appreciated) by sponsoring the students and children from the orphanage who will be picking up trash in Shimogamo Jinja and along the Kamogawa.
Participate in the cleanup walk and/or after-party with the children.
Donate any used computers you have that have wireless capability and are in good condition.
Forward this email to people on your mailing list who you think may contribute to this very worthy cause.
Start your own fundraising drive by telling your friends about this and asking for their help in any of the listed ways.
Donations can be sent either by mail to
Friends World/Global College
1-287 Akasaka Cho
Kinugasa, Kita-ku
Kyoto 603-8486
or can be deposited into our account at
Bank of Kyoto (Kyoto Ginko)
Kinkakuji Branch
Branch code: 165
Futsu Account number: 553079
Account name: Global College Japan Center
Barbara Stein
Overseas contributions can be sent to the above school address by an international postal order which can be obtained at any US post office.
For more information, contact Daniel Douglass (douglassdanielk[AT]yahoo.com).
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Christian Preschool Bazaar
There will be a bazaar at a Christian preschool called “Kodomo-no Ie (Children’s House)” in Ushiku City this Saturday from 11:30am to 2pm. There will be lots of stuff for kids, activities for kids, homemade meals and handmade items.
Ushiku Church Kodomo-no Ie is located not too far from the JR Ushiku Station, and is only a 5 to 7-minute walk from the station. There are some parking lots, but they are very limited. You can see the map and the parking information here or on Google Map.
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